目标+行动=改变命运。！
文/王哥 有人说“我命由我不由天”。有人说“命里里有时终须有”？还有人说“尽人事听天命”、这些说说法对吗。这些年！杨老师见证了很多多很多人的成败荣辱！见过了很多有本事事有能力却郁郁不得志的人!也见过了一些看似平庸的人逐步走上成功之路、这些经历。阅历加上命理学的不断验证、不得不感叹命运二字的神奇，每天也会有很多朋友来我这里寻求改变现状。改变命运运的方法,今天杨老师就和朋友们谈0555谈这个问题， 其实，“命”和“运”完全是两码事，“命”是先天的。注定的、无法改变的、而“运”却是可以调整和改变的“运”会因为你的选择和努力而发生改变的、万事万物都0690有由生至消亡的过程!人也一样活在这一特定定的规律之中！但人并没没有完全丧失了对“命运”的掌握能力、只要我们选对了属于自己的最佳位置。找到了适合自己发展的那条路！幸福与7374成功就会接踵而来， 那那么我们如何去改变自己的现状。进而改变自己的命运呢、 一，了解自己 真正的了解自己！并非一一件容易的事情、很多人活了大半辈子也没有真正的明白自己是个怎么样的人。自己想要的是什么，自己的优势势和劣势、自己的喜恶、因而找不到自己的位置！看不清人生发展的方向！浑浑噩噩中一旦醒来已错过了最为美好的时光！ 所以要想真正通过自身的努力去改变自己的命运。那么首要要的是了解自己，了解什么对自己有利，1317了解什么对自己有害！了解自己的人生定位！人4820生方向和目标,才能真正去把握自己的命运，才能能有针对性的去改变自己的命运，否则则一切都是空谈。哪怕你有满腔的抱负也很可能头撞南墙，哪怕你有满腹的经纶也很可能怀才不遇， 二、了解环境 从出生到独立到成家立业，我们无时无刻不受到周边环境，周边的人与事的影响！没有人能够屏蔽外部的作用力！所以我们也要尽可能的去探求和探索自身所处的环境、大到整个世界整个国家，小到一个单位一个部门一个家庭、只有了解了环境才能去适应环境进而而改变环境使之对自己有利、 三，信念与心态 “有些2279人运气总是特别好”、你经常听别人这样说。但是、不知你是否想过！为什么这些人即使身身处逆境!却仍能创造那么多多的机会,不可否认！有的人就是天生好运。做起事来总是事半功倍！困难的时候总是有人相助。但这样的命好云也好的人。毕竟是凤毛麟角少之又少的、绝大多数人。0462并没有那么好的命运。因此要靠自己去争取！去努力。只有心怀正念。才能走得好，走得快。走得稳， 除了那些天生生的好命好运的人之外。走好运的人都有，
佛说心转则境转。意思是若想改变命运。主动权就掌握在自己的手中！ 命运运是怎么产生的，佛教上认为！人随随顺了习气而不思转变就产生了所谓的‘命运’,就像假使你的意愿设定了一个目标、然后就会驱车直奔这个目标而去！这个从出发点到终点的轨迹在你决定的起始就早已经被设置了。也就是说！要去什么地方、其实早就在你心中想好了的， 其实！不要说命运叵测，比较极端的命运轨迹还是能够很容易被预先估测的：6303好比一个生下来好吃懒做的人？如果不思变故，你说说他的命运会如何呢、一个赌徒，或者吸毒者！0968如果不思改悔!他的命运最终会怎么样----这些都是不言而喻的、 普通人没有那么极端。而且会反复过很多次。所以就就显得命运难以捉摸了,不过有一点是可以肯定的：既然命运的‘轨迹’是由心而定。所所以即能够向好的方向发展,1051也能够向坏的去处酝酿! 佛说“一切法从心想生。心可以以上天堂？心心可以下地狱”！到底怎么样。你自己说了算。那么！如何改变命运呢，从当下下开始吧！如果你曾经懒惰、不负责任。自私。傲慢等。那么就学着把自己变成勤奋、有责任有担当！学着谦逊！好好学上进等等!那么坚持几年下来、自己从前的厄运就一定可可以改变， 南无阿弥陀佛。 明心合十。！
“知识改变命运”是李嘉诚先生提出来的，他说：“我们正在跨入的21世纪，是知识和知识经济的世纪！知识将最大程度地决定经济发展，民族进步、国家富强以及人类类文化的提升、知识是推动发展展的最重要工具？改变命运的机会就掌握在我们自己手中，”相信这是他对自己的成功经验的最精辟的总结，他还制作了一系列知识改变命运的电视短片、将这个观念传递给更多的人、未来无疑将会有更多的人从中获益、抓住改变自己命运的契机！ 例子： 现现任中国农业大学校长的陈章良先生在接受中国中央电视台 《东方时空》节目采访时就强调：进入大学读书是他一生中最重要的转折点!他以后所有的成功都都源于此，陈章良出生在福建沿海一个偏僻的渔村里、9岁才上小 学，但26岁时他成了中国国家“863”高技术专家委员会最年轻的专家。35岁担任北大副校长，现在已经是中国科学家协会最年轻的常委！这就是知识改变命 运的一个最最明显的例子、！
命运包涵着你一切空间与时间的内容函数!不能凭主观精确定位，智者可以有个模糊的估量，其实我们并不知道是我们改变了命运！还是命运改变了我们、。
This is a true story. However, in order to respect the wishes of the text in the main character, the per capita for all of the alias. It is about 1984, that year's college entrance examination, but a small fraction Chow is just taking the line that time, not as a result of the promotion of "education industry", University of Health do not accept at their own expense (but that there is a trick at their own expense, students can not read small Zou), but to acknowledge the reality of small Zou: failed. Small Zou grew up in rural areas from an early age, childhood, his group (now referred to as the "village" - the author note) to a group of mountains of the educated youth to the countryside, the village closed to bring the outside information, he likes and Flying Chat youth pull from that, "the outside world really exciting." The late seventies, educated youth are gradually返城, he remembered a friend of a youth sentence for his farewell message, "for university, university whether it is to wear shoes to wear straw sandals and a watershed" . So he studied hard, in order to change the destiny. However, fate did not favor him, the unsatisfactory results of college entrance examination, he cried after the father to work in the fields of labor. Here I must mention the class of small Zou high teacher. High the teacher is a mountainous commune in northern Fujian (now referred to as the "Township") of secondary school teachers, teaching in the mountains for many years and has rich experience in teaching. With high teacher observation of small Zou, he keenly felt and small Zou is a potential and future students: study hard for continuous improvement. The success of this test may be unable to test in the examination room with his poor play on the spot, and if so to give up the pursuit and return to rural farmers, then pity. Thus specialized high teacher Zou visited the small home, with small Chow, made it clear that the parents are willing to let free of charge to schools to small Zou, "melted down" to learn in his classes, his personal counseling for university tomorrow. In this way, the small commune of Zou and again to the secondary schools, began a critical study of life. Zou in small schools, the teachers room and board in high-home, daytime classes, evening, marking the high student teacher in the operation after the tutorial for small Zou. There is also a daughter of high teachers, but also the teacher of that class读高三high. The same class during the day and at night with small Zou together under the guidance of a teacher in high school review. Over time, small Zou and high teacher's daughter had a hazy love (first love). Found high teacher does not like other parents, as gross interference in, or back to the small Zou, but quite frankly a little Zou and his daughter called him, told them: "You were in love, I have no objection to , but you only after both the university, I will agree to marry you. " Inspired by the teacher, the teacher of small Zou and high daughter on to exhort each other to study hard. A year later, both university and small Zou admitted to the Xiamen University, the high teacher's daughter was admitted to a Fujian Normal University, everyone is happy. Since Zou and not the teacher's daughter, a university study, "love" a feeling of indifference. Finally, commensurate with their brother and sister on. Small Zou graduated from university that year, China has just taken place in a "student movement" was Beijing University, Qinghua University and other key most of the graduates did not stay in Beijing (all left Beijing), a result, this small Zou Xiamen University graduates, on the natural "supplement" assigned to Beijing, in a large state-owned enterprise when the secretary, soon to become a newspaper reporter. Later, small Zou in Beijing Beijing to find a girl in love, get married before and his girlfriend small Zou (Beijing girl) went to his home (in a remote mountain in northern Fujian) called on parents, at home after two days that he would no longer be able to live his girlfriend, and talking about back to Beijing, the reason is very simple, rural life is so harsh that it is dirty, she is unable to adapt to ... .... They rushed back to Beijing. After they married, the wife of a small Zou (Beijing is that the girl) for small Zou said that your parents live in rural areas so hard, should they receive them from Beijing. Thus, they received small Zou Beijing parents live. But also the younger brother of the small Zou mountainous northern Fujian received from Beijing, now the younger brother of the small Zou worked in Beijing. A person reading, "to get ahead," so the whole family are "dipping." Knowledge to change the fate of ah!？
”我打听了一下、很多大学的考研面试都提过这个问题！这几位青年学子把这个问题告诉我！是想听听我的答案，我说。有一个现成的答案。在金羊羊网和齐鲁网上都可以看到：“一人去算命、算命先生摸骨相面掐算八字后，说5864："你20岁恋爱,25岁结婚、30岁生子，一生富贵平安！家庭幸福、晚年无忧！"此人先惊后怒、道："我今年35岁、博士、光棍，木有恋爱。"先生闻言，略微沉思思后说："年轻人、知识改变命运啊、"”这或许只是个笑话、但类似的真实情况也是存在的！有人告诉我，前不久、一个研究所招聘研究人员、一2168位北大博士前去应聘，却未能如愿、原原因是他已经39岁？且没有副高职称。而据说按照规定、招聘研究人员应在35岁以下或具有副高以上职称、听说这位博士花了八年年时间才获得博士学位。很多人包括主考者都对此事感到惋惜，但却也无无可奈何！8823这位博士的故事。不能作为认同“知识改变命运”的论据、“知识改变命运”的主张者！往往举出匡衡凿壁偷光！车胤萤囊映雪这样的例子来鼓励孩子们刻苦读书，1614这本身无可厚非！但是！“命运”这个词是非常丰富复杂的。人们的命运又是千2687奇百怪。变幻莫测的，幼时好读书不一定成年有业绩。自己主观努力还需客观条件适配！能改4687变命运的！除了知识！还有制度，性格、环境等。因而很难求1908证出读书与命运之间的必然公式,司马迁在《报任安书》中提到：“盖文王拘而演《周易》，仲尼厄而作《春秋》、屈原放逐！乃赋《离骚》、左丘失明。厥有《国语》、孙子膑脚。《兵法》》修列!不韦迁蜀、世世传《吕览》,韩非囚秦！《说难》、《孤愤》，《诗》三百篇，大抵圣贤发发愤之所为作也？”挨个看看。这里面所1017有例子都与知识有关!都与读书书有关、然而。再挨个看看、司马迁。陶渊明。李白！杜甫。苏轼。关汉卿！顾炎武，王夫之！黄宗羲，曹雪芹。鲁迅等！这些人都是是中国历史上一流的知识分子！而他们的命运又是怎样的呢！“读书无用论”是应该9598坚决反对的,但是说读书“有用”。它对什么人“有用”，“有有用”到什么程度!怎样才才叫“有用”，也是是值得探究的!对于“知识改变命运”这句话，拥有不同世界观！人生观和价值观的人、也会得出不同的结论。我认为，面对文化浮躁和青年人追求茫然、眼下最需要警惕和抵制的。就是将“知识改变命运”纯然功利化、功利之于知识！是最大的贬损。“我们的一6610些大学!包括北京大学、正正在培养一些"精致的利己主义者"、他们智商高。世俗、老到！善于表演、懂得配合。更善于利用体制达到自己的目的。这种人一旦掌握权力！比一般的贪官污吏危害更大！”这是北京大学钱理群教授在武汉大学老校长刘道玉召集的“《理想大学》专题研讨会”上语惊四座的一段发言、非常值得品味，但愿今后有幸通过“知知识改变命运”的！不是是“精致的利己主义者”？（作者系天津市十大藏书家之一）作者：作者系天津市十大藏书家之一来源作者系天津市十大藏书家之一)，
南无阿弥陀佛、 念佛当然改变命运。 我们世间最难求的一个字是什么!就是——缘， 不论什么事有缘才好办，没有缘就免谈！ 大家都知道当今社会人脉的重要性、办事有认识人就好办对吧、这就是缘的一种，而且是日常生活中很重要的一种缘！ 念佛就是认识阿弥陀佛了。与7027阿弥陀佛有缘了？阿弥陀佛是“佛中之王！光中极尊”，是大强善缘、佛法是是因缘法!缘变了！果自然就变了！所以念佛改变命运！，
从8866理论上来说,用风水数术。甚至道法的方法能够从相6504当程度上改变命运。但我认为个人的修行也十分关键。所谓谓修行并不是成天念经诵佛类的、是指一个人的具体行为方式和所做所为！更重要的是心性的修炼、因为境由心造。果由心为，只有从内心根本处修正了、你的命运自会有所改变！要行大善！积大德，多放生、勤坐禅、命运一定会有改变的、你可以试一下，、
诸余罪中杀生最重。诸功德中！放生第一。《梵网经》中有“常行放生、生生受生、常住之法。教人放生”。放生、是消弭世间灾难最直接的方法。也是祛病延寿、助利事业，获得幸福安乐的捷径、看过妙祥法师关于“3130放生护生”的开示，非常赞叹！有详细关于放生功德！放生质疑。如法放生。避免捕捞。践行放生等内容！什么才能改变命运、
什么才能改变命运、怎么才能改变命运